If you were to ask me, I would probably say no. I don’t consider myself that special, and I don’t have very good social or conversational skills. Mostly I’m an introvert who likes time alone.

On Valentine’s Day, my husband took me to a concert given by a high school friend who also played at our wedding. At the concert was another alumni who I hadn’t seen in 50 years, yet because of our shared experience we have a connection. That made me think about those days and all the missed opportunities to get to know people who were worth knowing, just because of my own insecurities.

If I don’t think I’m worth your time, what would Jesus say about that? Even though I was a sinner, Christ died for me. (Romans 5:8)

Jesus thinks I’m worth his time, his love, his very life.

There is more: God says I am fearfully and wonderfully made, (Psalm 139:14). That I am a masterpiece, (Ephesians 2:10). And the same can be said about you. You are worth my time. That’s why scripture gives us prompts.

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.‬‬

Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭15‬ ‭NKJV

So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.‬‬

1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭11‬ ‭NLT

Love each other as brothers and sisters and honor others more than you do yourself.‬‬

Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭10‬ ‭CEV

There are many more verses that address nurturing our relationships. But the raising of my question came about with my fear about marketing my book. There I said it! My coach says to develop relationships, let people get to know you. And my response is, “What if they don’t like me? What if they don’t like my book or think it’s stupid?” I wasn’t even supposed to go there, talking about my book. But I’m asking people to join my newsletter and I’m having nightmares that I’m not worth their time. Oh and I’m not supposed to make it about me. Maybe I just need to get off this my chest.

The funny thing was the song that caught my attention this morning. I encourage you to take a listen if you find yourself telling yourself the same thing. Watch Your Mouth.

So, now that I’ve messed up my assignment, I’m going to slink back into my shell and spend some time with these scriptures.

I should probably start with some positive affirmations. Ha!

Grace (Yes! I need that.) & Peace (That too.),

Sandy

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